Week of Grief Pie & Sweet Salves: June 17-22

Deer Tender One,

I am writing from a broken-open place.  Though my heart is in pieces, I still believe the pain I'm feeling will not be in vain.  It's not easy, & someone had to help me get out the words, "I believe something good will come from this," but once I did, I knew they were true.  The Gemini New Moon last week had me stirring inside while in a flurry on the outside, & it was a trip down memory lane that reminded me of how much I love to put my deepest feelings & softest dreams into words.  It is my way to connect & communicate with the Femmeiverse & my past / present / future ancestral self, turning on some kind of beacon so the life I’m trying to femmeifest can find me.  I am writing myself back into health, balance, & power.  I am writing my whole self into existence.

I don’t know what’s transpiring in your world, deer one, but I wish for you a safe place to rest & food that brings you joy, comfort & hope.  These are the life ingredients I am holding closest to me at the moment.  It is a salve that saves me without fail.  Today I talked to & caressed produce at the farmer’s market down the street, smelled & was kissed by the rain while enjoying a sky full of grey clouds, & ate a bean burrito smothered in green chili with a fully carbonated Dr. Pepper. These are ways that I fill my heart & remind myself that I can still feel alive even though I am holding such deep, devastating grief.  

I am eating my slice of grief pie slowly, one bite of shitty shit paired with a meal that delights me at a time, kinda like Mary Poppins’ spoonful of sugar to help the medicine go down.  I guess that makes my grief my medicine.  Tarot for the People is born for & of that same medicine as grief place inside of me.  May it be the sweetness that makes eating your slice of grief pie easier.  Let's do this together. 

xo
​Dacia

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SPIRIT:
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theme of the week.
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1. Make daydreaming a priority, fold it into with your other daily / weekly routines.  
2. This is how you connect with your heart, your Spirit, & the Femmeiverse.
3. This is how you protect the delicate balance of your life.
4. If you’re doubting your choices that might be a sign you’re taking on other people’s shit.
5. Your heart has some answers for you, but first get rid of emotional baggage that is not yours you’ve acquired through your familial & intimate relationships.  
6. Once the stage is set, clarity will play out.

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EARTH:
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purpose & sacred cycles.
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1. You’re gonna have to face with the hoop on fire in your life.  
2. I don’t know what that is for you, but I’m guessing that you were avoiding this at all costs.  
3. You’re completing a cycle, so don’t be discouraged by all your previous attempts to address this challenge.  
4. When you propel yourself through this hoop on fire, you are choosing a life you’ve never known before.  It’s ok if you’re scared / hesitant / unsure.
5. Keep the vision of where you want to land in your mind.  See it there. Feel it there. This is how you make it happen.
6. Throw some caution to the wind & trust non-linear process.  It’s gonna take too long.

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AIR:
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beliefs & perceptions of the world.
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1. Discover who you really are.
2. Birth your own creation story.  Make up any kinda shit you want!  
3. Tell me how the Moon mothered you, how your ancestors tuck you into bed every night, how the Milky Way was your childhood playmate
4. Contradict yourself & let your imagination spin webs.  
5. Write, sing, speak, dance, cry yourself into existence.  
6. The shit that has happened thus far in your life cannot define you.

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FIRE:
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purification, transformation, & desire.
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1. You're being tempered.  
2. I’m sorry it’s unbearable right now, but I think you’ll be pleased to know the life you’ve been asking for is on its way.  
3. Don’t give up now.  Keep breathing through the pain.  You’re on the crest of breaking open.
4. You are bringing necessary ingredients over from the Spirit World, & that’s never easy.  
5. Unconditional love.  Surrender.  Forgiveness.  All for you.
6. Death & rebirth feel remarkably similar.  If you feel like you’re dying, you’re birthing yourself anew.

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WATER:
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tears-happiness, frustration, grief, pleasure.
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1. As someone who heavily identifies with water & a water sign, I feel personally attacked by this card lol. 
2. THE CODE says that I’m in charge, that what I say goes, & I don’t have to do shit I don’t wanna do.
3. Don’t waste your time feeling guilty for taking care of yourself & your business.  Nobody else can do this for you.
4. Take your cues from your Spirit / Intuition / the Femmeiverse if you’re feeling like your foundations are getting fucked up.
5. Your wild heart rules all.  Let it.
6. Rage & grief are part of your life, too.  Give them the same respect as forgiveness & unconditional love.  They’ve got shit to teach you.

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CONNECT WITH YOUR ANCESTORS!​
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 Dacia has been reading tarot for over 10 years & has developed a gentle approach that allows even the most challenging inquiries to come through with an ease & grace.  To experience the healing, clarity, & comfort you deserve, book a reading today!

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