Week of You Can Do Anything: July 8-14

​Deer Tender Heart,
Today is my birthday.  I will officially be 35-years-old tonight at 9:54pm tonight.  Right now I'm typing at the kitchen table while people I love are sleeping under the same roof.  I woke up before 7am even though I went to bed way late because I just have this desire (which totes sometimes feels like anxiety tbh) to move around in the quiet tender air of alone.  I like it.  It can hold me, nourish me with possibility, whisper hopeful to-do lists.  My thought are only interrupted with other thoughts of my own.  This is such a treat.

I was trying to decide what to do today, & I played with all kinds of plans, but when I wipe everything away but myself, what I want becomes clear.  I wanna go to the beach alone, maybe get my free breakfast at Denny's along the way, & pray & cry & dream with the ocean.  By myself.  The last time I did this was five years ago, but it wasn't on my birthday.  I loved it.  I love going to visit the ocean by myself.  I was worried that I would talk myself out of it because I gotta finish working & writing & posting one card readings so I can rest at ease, but the more that I type this out, the more I really really want to.

I also wanna ask you for something.  For my birthday can you give me some feedback?  Share with me what Tarot for the People does for you?  How you connect with it?  Do you like it?  Are there things you would change?  What are some things you'd like me to write more about?  I almost always feel like I am sending out these words into the internet void, I just wanna hear some things echoed back.  Please help take care of me.  I would really appreciate that a lot.

Love,
​Dacia

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I’d really love to collectively receive $50-$100 for the healing work channeled for this offering.  Please support femme labor & practice reciprocity by contributing through Paypal, Venmo, or Squarecash.  You can also book your own readings here!  Your support means I can do things like pay bills, buy food, & pay for transportation.  & it's my birthday TODAY, so if you wanna treat a femme, now is the time!
​& I don't wanna come off as rude, but if you think / assume
"somebody else" is taking care of this, settling up on this
community invoice, you're wrong.  The most I've received is
$15 one week, & nothing has come through for the past two.  Not trying to be fucked up or entitled, just totally naming a thing.
Thanks so much for witnessing, loving, & growing!
♡  ​​

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SPIRIT:
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theme of the week.
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• There are more options than you realize.
• Don’t believe it when someone tries to make you choose between a rock & a hard place & neither one interests you.
• Although I push back against the notion of being “tested” by the Femmeiverse, this is a test from the Femmeiverse.  
• Hold onto your power so you can illuminate your path.
• Holding onto your power means respecting your own boundaries, asking for what you want, making sure your needs are met, trusting that tug to leave a situation when you’re not being respected or getting pressured.

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EARTH:
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cycles of pleasure & indulgence.
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• Your most precious & powerful bottle of magic belongs to you & only you.
• Your love is enough.  You do not need to sacrifice everything to prove your love.  EVER.
• Boundaries are not only ok, they are necessary, & don’t minimize it when people disrespect them.
• Just because you’re really good at living in survival mode doesn’t mean you gotta stay there.  Don’t be afraid of being alone because you might actually be showing others the way through & out.

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AIR:
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understanding your life agreements.
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• You don’t need to sacrifice your own happiness, clarity, or well-being for anyone or any relationship.
• You are responsible for acknowledging when the reciprocity in your relationships dries us, & taking some kind of action to either get those waters flowing again or move in another direction.
• You didn’t do anything wrong.  You really were getting what you wanted, what you needed, filled up to your brim.  That was totally real.
• I’m sorry this is so hard for you, just remember that you deserve the kind of love & care you give so freely to others.  I know leaving is the last Sometimes leaving a situation that has turned sour is the only way to protect yourself from further harm.

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FIRE:
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purification & primal desire.
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• Go for it!  Do the thing that scares you that you know you have to do.
• When you trust more than you fear, even if it’s just for a moment, you are choosing to heal a pattern that has been holding you back.
• I know fucked up shit happens, & I just want you to know that the fucked up shit you internalized as a result are lies.  None of those things are true.
• Your intuitive body memory is much quicker & wiser than your linear thinking process.  Trust it.
• Don’t underestimate yourself.  Put yourself in new situations where you can try out your new skills!

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WATER:
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prioritizing your inner life’s well-being.
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• You deserve joy, passion, & stability in your life.
• Nudge yourself in these directions, even when it feels difficult.
• Nurture the beauty in your life so it can flourish.  Start with yourself.
• You are the only one with the key to unlock your heart, your potential, your creativity, your anything.  Many people & life circumstances will lead you right up to it, but they will never possess the key to do it.  That comes from within you.
• You hold more power than you realize.  You can do anything.

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CONNECT WITH YOUR ANCESTORS!
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I've been reading tarot for over 10 years & has developed a gentle approach that allows even the most challenging inquiries to come through with an ease & grace.  To experience the healing, clarity, & comfort you deserve, book a reading today!  I'm currently in Huichin / Oakland until mid July, so if you're also hanging out on Ohlone Land / in the Bay, book your in-person readings while I'm here! 

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